How to Lose a Guy in 10 days

How to lose a guy in 10 days was one of the very entertaining movies I have watched. Knowing that every audience of it, can easily put themselves in the shoes in each character in the stories. Even it was a romantic comedy movie we all see the relatedness of it in our subject especially in our course.  Honestly, I watch that movie twice, but even in the second time, knowing the plot or the next scene that will happen I still enjoy watching it again and I want to repeat that movie over and over again. Because of the character that Kate Hudson shows in disappointed action to lose Mattew McConaughey in 10 days, all the things she do and all the annoying stuff is still ineffective. Because Mattew McCounaughey ignore it because of his agenda for him to win a deal between his boss and officemate to be the one who will make a campaign about the diamond. I don’t have any violent reaction on watching this movie because definitely I enjoy it.

Honestly I don’t have any suggestion in this movie because it was good romatic comedy every one prefers.  From the characters, plots and the ending was definitely perfect. Every a character was fitted oh how the actress and the actors play it. But as a movie addict, I predicted the plot or the next scene that will happen, the story is common. I suggest that the movie have a twist that know can predict. A twist in which it uplift the interest of its audience and that will make a difference against the other movies that have the same story. But I learned that Psychology plays an important role  in the business. Knowing that behaviour of the person can affect the success of the organizational goals or objectives.

White lies

                 Every one of us for sure has do white lies. It is worth spending time thinking about what white lies is a moral, immoral, or amoral thing? Most people would say that lying beyond doubt is wrong, but how about if you lie for the intention to do good? Do you consider it evil? Persons answer might depend on what they believe what is wrong and right. Knowing that the ninth of the ten commandments of our Lord says to us that “You shall not bears false witness against your neighbour” for me this means that Lord also command us not to lie.  In our own personal lives, we need to gain knowledge of the significance of telling the truth, considering the truth, and living the truth, because the very temperament of our Father in heaven can be imparted to us through His Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit gives to us His nature, the nature of God, and this nature begins to replace our nature and our spirit as we overcome ourselves and our sins. It helps us become more like Him, and He cannot lie. And white lies are still a lie they only deffer on the purpose of why someone lies but their nature are still the same.And I believe that "the ends does not justify its means" whatever the purpose and the ending of your white lies , still your means is bad, this means it is an immoral action as a person.

The Invisible Ring

If you are intrinsically good and you found a magic ring that can make you invisible person will you use that ring even the temptation of evil is in that ring? This question bother me until right know. We all know that we as a human being are created in the lightness and image of God, our Creator is good we are also originally good. But some persons answer that due to the power of ring have they might be entice to use this ring. Because it was a chance for them to do anything that no one else can see and know. I respect their answers but a person I believe that they should not think and act that way. For me human thinking and our compassionate heart set as apart from animal. This means that we know what is wrong and right and we have the compassionate heart to do moral things. And as person we should know the three elements of human mind (reason, appetite, and spirit) in which a healthy mind is where our reasons direct and control the urges of our spirit and appetite. We have reason for us to be a benevolent person and to become great sages in this world. Using the magic ring is evil, we know it was evil. So I hope our righteousness will be the basis of every decision and action we make not by our self interest. 

Mental Law

If you have two thoughts in differing direction you cannot have it at the same time. This is what I learned for the period of our philosophy lecture yesterday. This mental law simply means that you cannot be angry and happy at the same person at the same time. We can have two or more thoughts or emotion if its nature was the same. But contradictory thoughts at the same time is not probable, it is contracting. And I also learned that if you have negative or unproductive thoughts you must cultivate it to affirmative one. If you are angry the antidote is the loving-kindness and compassion to someone. It was divergent to the modern psychology who says that if you are angry you should express it, you must show it to lessen the extent of your angriness to someone. But this philosophy believes that when you express anger you are practicing it, and it became your habit. The next time when someone insult or hurt you, the degree of your anger will easily increase because anger becomes your second nature. According to some Buddhist book there are about 4000 kinds of disruptive emotions but there are also 4000 kinds of antidote for it.

            So let as start to live our life to a happier one by cultivating the opposite of our disruptive emotions that we all have.

A Big "Y" for Yellow

                There was always a reason for every why, why I exist in this earthly world?  Why I always want to eat? Why I am writing a blog right now? There are lots of question and lots of reasons behind it. But let me focus on a big “Y” on why I love color yellow. There are lots of research and study about the meaning in the rear for every color in this world, some uses psychology to understand why people love a specific colors.

            Most of the people conclude that color yellow exudes happiness, brightness, light, confidence, vivacity, energy, optimism, enthusiasm to grow and outshine. Yellow is the color of the quick in intellect, the quick-witted, and those who seek wisdom. But some negative aspects of yellow are dishonesty, cowardice, betrayal, jealousy, covetousness, deceit, illness, hazard, treachery, and aging this reason of the color yellow was based on psychology and other kinds of study.But questioning me about why I love color yellow is divergent to what I stated earlier. Yellow symbolizes unrevealed feeling of sadness for me. Maybe it can be considered on what called “reversed psychology” its color can be a positive to every person who sees it due to its potent brightness. But for me I believe that brightness is not a symbolism of happiness but a sign of mask for them to cover their true sentiment which is unrevealed feeling of sadness in life.

            This is the reason why I love yellow to MASK a lonely sentiment of me.